Wednesday, October 15, 2025

Update: October 2025


2025 10 07 

Hi everyone -

Thanks for all your ongoing love and support!

Greetings from Constantiaberg hospital, where I’m waiting for a blood transfusion late today, as the chemo has changed my blood counts yet again. 

I had hoped not to have a post-chemo “crash”, but it happened anyway, starting late last week.

I’m glad to be receiving some blood, as it helps me enormously.

If you don’t want all the details of how this arose, then skip the next message!

Huge appreciation, always,

Lots of love 🌹❤️ 

 

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Yesterday, when I went for my routine pre-chemo blood test, the counts were borderline, meaning that it wasn’t clear whether or not we could go ahead with today’s planned chemo (the second session of Cycle 3).

So they asked me to have a further blood test this morning and told me it should be at 07:30 (which is when I usually wake up!) in order to have results well before the 10:30 chemo appointment.

Gail got me to Pathcare Tokai just before 07:00 (their opening time), and then back home by 07:30.

The results took ages to come through, anyway! By 10:30, when we arrived at the chemo room (in case chemo was going ahead), there was still nothing (apparently the results might have come through more quickly if we had come to Constantiaberg for this morning’s test).

The results were only released at almost 11:00. Everything was slightly worse than yesterday. This meant that there was no way I could have chemo today, with the counts still borderline as to whether I should have a transfusion.

I’m glad that Garth decided that I should get two units of blood. This meant taking more blood, for the blood bank’s exact match with me as of today, and I’ve been admitted for the night. The blood will arrive much later today, and the transfusion will probably be overnight - just like a month ago. For the first time ever, I’m not in my favourite ward, though - it’s so full in Haematology that I’m now with the overflow in Neuroscience, in a three-person ward.

We’ll check, tomorrow, whether or not the post-transfusion blood counts show that I’m ready for chemo.

 

2025 10 08

Thanks for the cheering on that you’ve all been doing for me!

The blood transfusion was from early evening until some time after midnight, and I slept through quite a lot of it.

The early-morning blood test showed that I could now have chemo today, so greetings from the chemo room, where I’ll be for an hour or so. And then home!

Lots of love 🌹❤️

 

2025 10 13

Thanks so much for all the messages and photos!

The blood transfusion gave me a fair amount of energy, which has lasted over the past few days, and there hasn’t been a grey blanket. (A friend had written, “Hoping the grey blanket if it’s there is lifting.”)

This was extra helpful, because Gail had day-patient surgery on Friday to remove polyps from inside her nose and sinuses. She’s had to take it very easy since then, so we’ve had a gentle weekend together (Neria is ensconced at her “doggy hotel” until tomorrow).

This is my week without any chemo. My next chemo is scheduled for Thursday 23 October (if my blood tests the day before show that I’m ready).

Lots of love and appreciation, always 🌹❤️